Losing a spouse is heartbreaking. Nothing can prepare you for grief, and it is life-changing for many people. A wedding ring represents your commitment and love for another person. After your spouse dies, deciding what to do with it can need a lot of consideration. Before making a choice, consider all of your options carefully. Here we look at a few things that might feel right for you if you’re having trouble deciding what to do with your wedding ring.
Keep Wearing It
Many surviving spouses choose to continue wearing their wedding ring the same as they always have. Some may do so until they pass away, others may do so until they feel ready or perhaps if and when they form a new relationship. There is no right or wrong here; wearing the wedding ring is a personal choice, and it should stay in place until the time feels right to change it.
Modify it
Some people choose to add memorial diamonds or engravings. It is possible to have a diamond made using ashes, so you will always have a piece of that person with you. You could even incorporate a lock of their hair. Speak to a specialist jeweller about your options.
Wear it on A Different Finger
Many people choose to move their wedding ring to a different finger or to the other hand after their spouse dies. For some, this serves as a small step towards no longer wearing it; for others, it’s a way of staying connected to their spouse without showing marriage status.
Put the Ring on A Necklace Chain
Widows and widowers often have their wedding rings hanging from a chain around their necks. In addition to keeping the ring close to your heart, doing this allows others to see it and learn about your married status.
This is a fantastic alternative if you want people to know your position without explaining it. The physical representation of your love is kept close by wearing your ring around your neck. It’s a straightforward yet lovely way to express love and remember your spouse.
Store it For Inheritance Purposes
If you want your jewellery to stay within the family, including your wedding ring as part of your estate is a lovely idea. Many children would love to inherit their parent’s wedding rings as this holds a wealth of sentiment and memories. Be sure to keep it somewhere safe and secure rather than simply in a jewellery box. A safe or fireproof box is a good option.
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